anorexia

[someone]

sorry dat ik het hier plaats maar ik denk dat wanneer ik het in de grote lijntopic plaats er lang niet zo snel reactie op komt.
Ik heb vragen aan de mensen met anoorexia of die dat hebben gehad.
Mn zusje vind zichzelf veel te dik, en zit te denken over niks eten en uitspugen enzo.
ze wil gewoon heel snel afvallen zodat ze in de zomer een beetje een strakke buik heeft. nou oke daar kan ik nog inkomen.
maar is er ook iets anders om heel snel aftevallen??
en hoeveel van je per week af als je niet meer gaat eten of het weer uitspuugt ?? en je komt daarna toch ook weer heel snel aan?? heeft er misschien nog iemand informatie over anorexia zodat ik es goed met haar kan praten, en dat er misschien andere dingen zijn om snel aftevallen.
(ze heeft veel last van haar rug en knieen dus kan niet aan sport doen)
alvast bedankt!

[Quiana]

Heel snel afvallen is gewoon niet goed imo.
Naja, als je dat doet door een week oid
heel weinig te eten, om de week erop
weer normaal te eten, komt alles er toch weer aan..
Probeer het gewoon rustig te doen,
blijft het volgens mij ook langer weg..
(naja, niet als je erna je helemaal klem vreet.. )

someone schreef:
heeft er misschien nog iemand informatie over anorexia zodat ik es goed met haar kan praten, en dat er misschien andere dingen zijn om snel aftevallen.

http://www.sabn.nl


En als ze af wil vallen, laat haar dan naar een dietiste gaan (of zeg haar iig dat zo iets kan). Dan kan ze het op een verantwoorde manier doen.

[someone]

thanks ik zal het haar laten zien. ik zou alleen nog wel graag iets van mensen met een eetprobleem willen horen dus ik hoop dat er mensen zijn die me informatie kunnen geven.
thankssss

[Vlooienband]

Van een site:

The Guide To Being Anorexic (a parable)
By Eva Joy Musick

I met Heather, a thirteen-year-old girl that wanted to become anorexic. Naturally being seventeen-yr old and having dealt with it in my past I was all too happy to lend her my advice. So this is the story of how I taught a girl to become anorexic.

"Give me a day with her." I told the mother. She was worried sick about her daughter who wanted to become an anorexic. So she agreed to send her daughter with me for just one day. "I hear you want to
become anorexic." I said as we drove to my place. "Yeah, so what? Don't try to tell me all the bad things about it and how it will kill me and...." "Oh no you got me all wrong. I'm here to welcome you into the club!" She looked at me shocked and overwhelmed. "What are you talking about?" "I said I'm here to welcome you to the club. I was anorexic once. Now I just recruit new girls." She seemed amazed and stunned.

When we got to my place I gave her a pen and paper. "Now write down everything you enjoy and love in life." She looked at me blankly. "Go ahead." She did as I told her. While she was writing the phone rang. It was Shawna. She and Nikki were going out for pizza and wanted to know if I would come. I told them about Heather and that I wanted her to come too. They said fine and so I got stuff ready to go. "All done." She said laying down the pen. "Let's see. you've got friends, family, and guys. Is that all? Let's put down life and your future too. Ok?" She nodded. "Ok now we're going out with some of my friends to eat pizza. I hope you don't mind." "No not at all." She
said smiling. I slipped the paper into my purse and we left for the pizza place.

When we arrived Shawna and Nikki were waiting with the pizza already on the table. We sat down and I reached for a slice. Heather also reached for one. "You can't do that remember? You're anorexic." I
said to her pushing back her hand. "But you're eating!" She exclaimed. "That's beside the point. Besides I just recruit anorexics now, I'm not one." "UH!!!!" She slouched back in her chair. In a few more minutes five young teens walked into the pizza
place. They all seemed to recognize Heather and came over. "Hey!" She exclaimed. "Oh hi are you Heathers friends?" I asked them. "Yeah. You wanna sit with us Heather?" one of the girls asked. Heather started to get up but I held her arm. "I'm sorry but she
can't hang out with you anymore." I said returning to my pizza. "Why?" One of the others exclaimed. "Because she's anorexic now and she can't have friends." I said. "What are you talking about?" Heather shouted. "No need to get upset. You may as well start out right. Anorexics don't have time for friends. Do they Nikki?" I said. "No you didn't have time for us." She agreed. "Sorry Heather but anorexia is your only friend now. You want to stay thin don't you?" She lowered her head. "Sorry guys, maybe some other time."

On the drive home I went very slowly. We passed a couple on a bridge kissing softly. "You see that Heather?" I asked. "Yeah." "Well mark guys off your list because you won't have any now." I said. "Don't anorexics have boyfriends?" She asked. "Some do. But they don't really have time for love. They're too busy thinking about their weight." Then we passed an old woman sitting on her front porch. "Look at that Heather. At least you won't have to worry about being like that." I said. "But she looks happy." Heather said upset. "True but you won't be happy or old." I said. "What do you mean?" She asked. "You'll die before your old enough to even have a future. Speaking of which get that piece of paper out of my purse, will you?" She did as I asked. "Ok now take the pen in the dashboard and mark off friends, guys, life, and future." She looked up at me. "All that's left is family." I looked toward her. "Mark that off too." "WHAT!" She screamed. "Well you can't expect to love them can you?" I said. "I love my family ok? And if you can't deal with that I don't care!" She began screaming and banged her fist into the door. By that time I had stopped in front of her house. "But you won't have time for." "Don't tell me that because I will! I will have time and you know why? Because you're crazy! Being thin isn't worth all that!" She screamed as she got out of the car and slammed the door.

That's the story of how Heather found out about anorexia. I'm not anorexic now. All I do is to help girls know how to become the perfect anorexic and all they will have to give up.(Not a true story but it's something I wish would have happened to
>me before I became anorexic.)

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NOW that you can see... this isnt a life, nor is it pleasurable most of the times. Its torture, and it takes pain and will never leave for the rest of your life. Even if you do recover, the thoughts still remains. You eventually lose control and your body gets damaged. If i could turn back the clock,...I WOULD. But sad thing is, I can't and i'm dying.
Do you want to die too? or is this just a "shortcut to be thin for so and so time/date?" if so, leave while you still can. Please hear us out,... we know what we are talking about. Really we do!

KJ (and Sheryl)





Je kan haar ook een keer meenemen naar een ano_kliniek. Dat werkt, ze zal schrikken. En vertel haar dat het dom is, wat ze nu doet. Zeg haar dat ze gewoon af kan vallen, op een normale manier.

dit klinkt nog niet echt als anorexia, al is 't geen goed eetpatroon (0,2 procent van alle meisjes van 13-23 heeft maar anorexia, 't is echt niet zo dat 't zo gauw zo is...)

als je zusje toch wil afvallen en jij vindt dat ze dat op een goede manier moet doen, sleep haar dan eens mee naar de huisarts of een dietiste... die weten de enige goede manieren

[Snufje]

Sorry, maar dit hoort tocht echt in het lijntopic..! Maa je hebt al wat reacties Maar wat leonie al zei: een dietiste is de verantwoordste manier om af te vallen!